Selfish? You bet your ass we are.

You are a brilliant badass.

You’re that bitch who’s in six weddings every year. The one who’s known for being an absolute savage at work. Your social calendar makes Kimye’s life look like peasants’. You’re the person people turn to to plan birthdays, happy hours, date nights, girls trips, and just about everything else. People wonder how you do it. They sing your praises for being a killer lover, co-worker, family member and friend.

So then why they hell don’t you feel like a brilliant badass on the inside?

If you’re tired of feeling like a fraud…
If you’re done with being the “all-yes-all-the-time” girl when you really want to be the at-home-in-sweatpants-on-a-Saturday girl…
If you’re over telling yourself that you’ll get to your dreams when things “settle down” year after year…

Soul Confidence is for you.

Christa Bowers

Prior to joining Soul Confidence, my life seemed uncontrollable.

I was overstressed, unhealthy, and felt stagnant. I wanted things to change, but I had no idea where to start.

Since joining Soul Confidence, I have seen improvements in every aspect of my life: my health, my relationship with myself and others, spiritually, emotionally, financially, and professionally. Most of all, my mentality and outlook have changed. I realized that I was not living my “best life” and Lindsey helped me take action to fix that.”

Christa Bowers
The Soul Confidence Philosophy is simple. To go from selflessly sacrificing to selfishly thriving you need to…
Get Real With Yourself

Know what you want in your life, how to get there, and not settle for less.

Blast Your Brilliance

Be your own best friend, celebrate your successes, and show up authentically without apologizing.

Put Bullshit to Bed

Recognize you’re in control, release the parts of your past that are holding you back, and run your fears into the ground.

Every last drop of the training, support and materials in Soul Confidence have to do with fleshing out these three elements and will leave you feeling like a bad bitch inside and out.


Monthly themes

Every month we focus on a different part of your life so you can figure out where you’re putting yourself and what you really want last.

Weekly video lessons

Short-video lessons are posted on the weekly so you can dive deeper into the theme of the month and keep the work you’re doing on yourself at the forefront of your brain.

Written exercises

Video lessons come accompanied by a downloadable PDF worksheet so you can actually apply and implement what you’re learning to your life.


Group Accountability Calls

Twice a month the entire Soul Confidence sisterhood gets on a call to talk shop, get unstuck, and recommit to themselves. This will rock your world.

The Soul Confidence Community

Your own crew of badass sisters ready to love, support, and celebrate you so you can transform like the queen you are.

Access to Lindsey

I’m available to you through our app 24/7. Have a question? I’m there. Need some guidance? I’m there. Want to swear at someone because being selfish shouldn’t be so goddamn hard? I’m here for you.


Soul Confidence App

Everything we do is via our own app because we’re grown ass millennial women who deserve a distraction-free space we can access from anywhere in the world.

Playlists, events, gifts and more

Because becoming selfish doesn’t have to be so effing serious all the time. Be prepared for fun gifts — like, real, actual, sent from San Francisco with love mail.

When you join the Soul Confidence crew you’ll join the ranks of Former Obama Staffers, photographers, Coachella managers, yoga instructors, youth empowerment activists, stylists, architects, bloggers, nurses, doctors, entrepreneurs, tech powerhouses, lawyers and more.

We are successful, talented, smart, driven women, and we are serious about reclaiming our time.

Ann Hodge (SALT)

Committing to Soul Confidence is committing to self-growth, and a community of strong, inspiring women who are there to support each other in becoming their best selves.

I’m gaining the confidence that I can do anything if I can imagine it, believe in myself, and am willing to put in the work. I’m being challenged, inspired, and most importantly I’ve grown more than I thought possible.

Ann Hodge
Melissa McFarland

I have started to see myself for who I really am. I am not afraid to live my life, my truth.

I feel like I am finally taking ownership of my life, finally. I am directing the path to where I want my life to go. I have made my career centered around empowering young women, Soul Confidence is the place I have come to get empowered. I am now more fearless and unashamed to live my life, my way without validation.

Melissa McFarland
Why Soul Confidence?

Because you haven’t prioritized yourself in too long.

Think about the last time you had a *full* weekend where you gave only to yourself. How long ago was it? I’m talking no work on the weekends. No bullshit birthday parties. No movie compromising with bae. Just you, yourself, and whatever badass lady-boss activities your heart desired. If you have to really think about it, it’s been too long.

Because you don’t want to wake up at 45 wondering where the time went.

Mid-life crises don’t pop up overnight — they’re the result of years of choosing others above yourself. They are the result of bad habits formed in your early life that can continue into your twenties, thirties and forties. They are the result of prioritizing the needs of friends, lovers, work, and kids above yourself. This is *your* life. Your time on this earth. Don’t mindlessly give your time to everyone else.

Because you fucking deserve it.

You deserve to be chosen first. You deserve to be selfish. You deserve to go through life without enduring a midlife crisis.

The work you’ll do in Soul Confidence is you making the decision that you’re going to stick up for yourself. You show up for yourself. You prioritize yourself.

You are the Queen Bee of giving, and it’s about damn time you gave to yourself.

Kathy Pfeiffer

Soul Confidence has clarified why I (a “smart, together and self disciplined kind of person”) got really stuck moving forward in certain aspects of my life.

I have to admit that I had absolutely no clue that I was following the same, negative, soul sucking, pattern on repeat before for these ‘tricky’ dreams. I also had no idea I wasn’t mapping out my goals as logically as possible. Soul Confidence has equipped me mentally and practically to actually start moving towards my goals and I couldn’t be more grateful.

Kathy Pfieffer
Vlada Podlubnaya (Graphic Designer)

Soul Confidence has reinforced that, regardless of the books I’ve read/successful people I’ve listened to, in the end I know what is best for myself.

Being part of this community has reminded me that it’s most important for me to prioritize listening to myself and choose what is best for me.”

Vlada Podlubnaya
Hillary Ungson (Hillary Ungson Photography)

Soul Confidence has allowed me to understand my inner dialogue and what’s been holding me back to take more action in my life.

I’ve learned about my belief system that’s deeply rooted in comfort and I’m now working on strategies to combat these beliefs with the support of Lindsey and all the amazing women of Soul Confidence.”

Hillary Ungson


What is Soul Confidence?

Soul Confidence is an online community for women who are ready to be show up in the world as the woman they want to be. This program is designed to teach you the tools you need in order to transform into the woman you’re meant to be by way of The Soul Confidence Model over the course of a year. No quick-fixes. Real change. Through monthly lessons, worksheets, exercises, prompts, and group accountability calls you’ll immediately start getting after your life in a way you’ve never been able to before.

Who is Soul Confidence for?

Soul Confidence is for women in their late 20’s and early 30’s who are over being stuck and are ready to do the work necessary to transform into the highest version of themselves. The Soul Confidence community consists of women in all walks of life and career fields including: former White House staffers, photographers, youth empowerment activists, yoga instructors, stylists, bloggers, nurses, doctors, entrepreneurs, tech powerhouses, and more.

The women I serve are ready to do the work necessary to become the person they know they’re meant to be. They don’t want a quick fix — they want real change.

What if I have no idea who I want to be or what I want?

Then get your ass in Soul Confidence. Seriously. The lessons and exercises within Soul Confidence will give you the clarity you need in order to stop feeling stuck, and then provide you with action steps for *how* to get there.

What if I can’t commit to a year?

Soul Confidence is not a fit for you. I don’t promise quick-fixes or “Be a new you in only 6-weeks!” because frankly, I think it’s bullshit. The transformation you’re craving will take consistent time, dedication, realignment, and commitment for the rest of your life. A year-long membership to Soul Confidence is providing evidence to yourself that you’re serious about becoming the woman you want to be.

What time are the group accountability calls?

Group accountability calls are held on the 15th and the last day of each month. Every call is recorded and made available immediately, so you don’t have to worry about being there live to get results.

Calls falling on weekdays will be held at 6PM Pacific.
Calls falling on weekends will be held at 9AM Pacific.

How much time will it take me to do the lessons and group calls?

My recommendation is for you to commit 90 minutes each week to being in Soul Confidence. Whether that’s 12 minutes a day, 30 minutes 3 days a week, 90 minutes one day a week is up to you.

How do I pay for my membership?

You can pay for your Soul Confidence membership using any debit or credit card. We use Stripe to process payments, so your information is never compromised.

What’s the refund policy?

If you fully participate in the program within the first 30 days of your membership (watch all of the lessons, complete all of the exercises, and participate in all of the group calls), and you aren’t satisfied with your progress, I’ll refund you all of your money back. I built every piece of Soul Confidence and I have absolutely no doubt that it will blow your mind and give you the tools you need in order to become the woman you want to be, which is why I’m happy to stand behind it.

About Lindsey Liu

I’m not the kind of Life Coach who’s going to feed you inspirational Liz Gilbert and Brene Brown Instagram quotes without telling you *how* to use the quote to make progress in your life. I’m about cognitive-based tools and massive action. After going through a divorce in my mid-twenties I dug deep to find myself. I quit my corporate job, got my coaching certification, opened a business, taught women how to love their bodies through pole dancing, published an Amazon-best selling book, launched Soul Confidence and found love again.

I’ve lived the content I teach, which is to say I know how fucking complicated it can be to start saying “no” to others in order to say “yes” to yourself. I’ve struggled, slipped, recommitted, and conquered time and time again on my way to becoming who I am today.

I understand the struggle to claim what it is you want. I understand how scary it is to take the first step. I understand the allure of staying in a life that is “good enough.” I understand how hard it can be to take ownership of your own life. I understand what it is to brawl with your past when it comes to what you’re capable of. I understand the deep desire to be who you really are and have a fulfilling relationship with yourself.

I understand you.

You do not have to stay stuck in a psycho-vortex of giving to everyone but yourself.
You are capable of being a kickass friend, co-worker, lover, and family member AND prioritizing yourself.
You can live your life according to your rules.

I’m here to help you make it happen.

Lindsey Liu